"Survival is the new success".
A friend of mine laid this pithy aphorism on me at lunch the other day.
With all of the huge changes going on in Hollywood, as the film industry like all of the other media businesses struggles with how to reinvent itself in the digital age, and companies and jobs disappear left and right like some mass extinction, it certainly felt like a timely message for an age of downsized expectations.
But success is such a funny word.
The finely-tuned calibration of success has really been one of the essential arts of Hollywood, as measured out in Box Office Gold or statues of Bald Gold Men at Oscar time, or Power Lists or television Q Ratings or any other quivering celebrity-meter on the internet.
Framed in those terms, success can feel always just out of reach for some, or here today and gone tomorrow for others.
Pretty ephemeral stuff.
Mostly we think of it in terms of popularity or profit, but it really applies to any goal or attainment. It can even apply to failure, if one successfully learns a lesson from one’s defeats or setbacks.
When you think about your life and what you have accomplished, how often do we really measure our success in terms of material things? Sometimes we feel successful just getting out of bed or getting our kids to brush their teeth, and sometimes we feel successful for striving towards greater goals, the things that really matter.
In my life, no one has taught me more about success than Diego, who, as a boy on the autistic spectrum, works so hard to accomplish things that others might master more simply, but perhaps appreciate less for their ease of attainment. He has his setbacks, but he is rarely defeated when he puts his little mind and heart on a goal.
Solar system courtesy of Natalie, Space Man courtesy of Diego
If survival is the new success, Diego is not only a survivor but a winner, and we are all made richer for knowing him.
william

